When your ex wife starts dating
I often hear of ex-spouses who can continue to be friends after they divorce.
On the other hand, if their relationship has been going on for over a year, then you can safely assume that the relationship is serious for them and it’s probably not a rebound.
You can’t believe that they’ve moved on so fast, so you consult your friend, search the Internet and everyone seems to say the same thing. The new guy/girl seems completely opposite of you and yet your ex seems committed to make this relationship work.
You are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on.
My suggestion for you would be to get real with yourself on where these feelings of insecurity are coming from.
Is it coming from a past experience of yours or something that your fiancé has brought from his past? I would encourage you to talk with your fiancé to let him know the boundaries you are comfortable with.